On November 15th, I turned 18. That is INSANE to me. I am officially an adult. This past year has been all about growing and learning for me. I have definitely changed as a person, friend, writer, blogger, and student. Not only did I get my license, but I also started my first official job, finished my college applications (and even got some acceptances back already), and so much more. I know that I will continue to grow everyday, but I wanted to do this post so that you guys can hear some of my advice (no matter what age).

1. take care of your body.
2. do what makes YOU happy
3. it’s okay if you don’t have everything figured out
4. crying does not make you weak!!
5. not everyone is meant to stay in your life
6. be kind to everyone
7. mistakes are okay
8. don’t be afraid to show people you care
9. write everyday
10. you can say “no” without making up excuses
11. get off of your phone sometimes
12. don’t be so negative all the time
13. don’t let the little things bother you
14. embrace the future, don’t let it scare you
15. you are the only one who can make things happen for yourself
16. stay humble
17. you are doing just fine

Each of these little lessons/reminders have helped me live a less anxious and happier life. I struggled a lot at the beginning of the year with anxiety and stress, but these tips were really useful. I hope you keep these in mind, and I hope they help you out!

xo, Jessica